We can learn a lot from our pets—how to live in the present, how to love unconditionally, and how to be stubborn in pursuit of what you want (well, maybe our pets do that a little too much).
Cat parents know some that sometimes our feline friends earn themselves a reputation for being standoffish, but their fiercely independent nature can actually teach us a lot about relationships and how to best show up in them.
So what can your cat teach you about love? True cat people understand the valuable lessons in love that come from our purr-ecious pets, and here's what they said.
What your cat can teach you about love
Live in the present meow-ment
Always appreciate a nice meal
Don’t keep your illness to yourself
Always be yourself
It’s okay to be shy
It’s normal to not like everyone
Leave your mark to spice things up
It’s okay to disagree
Settle arguments quickly
Give each other space when you’re not feeling social
Your time is valuable, make sure you only spend it with those who you love
Frantically try to leave so they will always ask you to stay
Land on your feet when things get rough
Keep the mystery alive with sudden changes in what you want
A soft smack in passing lets people know they’re on your mind
Try to be as cute as possible when you sleep
Never let anyone body shame you for having a primordial pouch
Cuddles are vital for a healthy relationship
Needing a warm space isn’t asking too much
Speak each other's love languages
Love at your own terms—no compromises
Scratching is a form of love
It's okay to not always want to be touched
Sharing affection randomly and unprompted means the most
Treats can make someone's day
Remember to keep yourself well groomed
Be vocal with your feelings (MEOW!)